Make Sure You Know your Asian Woman…Before You Say, "I do!"
When choosing a partner in Toko, Asia , there are numerous issues which
may lead to frictions and conflicts. Following the principle that prevention
is better than cure, it seems wise to air these issues before Asian
marriage and see if you actually can spend a lifetime together in Tokyo.
The questions below were devised to help you and your Asian partner
find out how compatible you really are.
Is this the one person you can see going through life's ups and downs with? Find out!
What are your religious views between you and your Asian lady?
What irritates you most in his (her) conduct?
How do you handle arguments with your Asian bride?
Do you share your feelings or keep them inside?
Who will handle the checkbook?
What is your attitude about the Asian wife working outside the home?
What are your views about stay-at-home dads?
How would you feel about Asian women who make more money than men?
How do you handle money? Do you feel you should save everything or splurge a little?
What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work or faces long-term unemployment? What would you expect from him/her?
Do you identify one's success and/or failure as success and/or failure for both?
What is your attitude toward debt?
How will you handle reverses? (in case of unemployment, debt, sickness, etc.)
Where will you live? (house/apartment/room and geography)
How important is a Asian girl's or guy's night out?
Are you satisfied with the frequency of your lovemaking?
How do you cope when your desire levels are unmatched?
What is your feeling about birth control? And what are your views on abortion?
When do you plan to have a child? How many children?
Do you think you should argue in front of your kids? Do you think you should display affection in front of your kids?
How would you discipline your children?
Who do you expect would be the primary care giver for your children?
How would you handle your partner if they developed a problem such as gambling or alcohol?
What would you do if your partner cheated on you?
At what point would you consider divorcing?
What are your long-range goals? Short-range goals?
What are your passions?
What do you feel is the purpose of a couple getting married to Asian
woman?
